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Thursday, December 24th, 2009 | Author: Erika

Sorry about not posting yesterday.  You see, I was too busy celebrating.  With my handsome husband.  Who just so happened to freaking rock the heck out his huge exam yesterday.

That’s right, he met his foe on the battlefield, pitted his wits against it, and emerged victorious with a nearly perfect score.  Take that, Microsoft certification exam!

Now that this exam is behind him, Wes can officially start looking for work as a software developer because not only is he now qualified as a software developer, he also has the credentials to back it up.  He wants to take five more exams after this one so that he’s qualified as a super-hero developer or somesuch, but this was the big one and he nailed it.

We spent the day at the super-fancy mall around here, soaking up the revelry and commerce, and then went to see Avatar in 3D.  It was a really fun movie to watch, but either my eyes are broken or the projectors were slightly out of focus because a lot of the movie just looked kind of blurry.

Needless to say, I’m really going to enjoy watching the movie again on DVD.  When I won’t spend half the movie closing my eyes to avoid the blur, and where I won’t miss crucial parts of the plot because of my many bathroom breaks.

Now we are left with wonderful things to celebrate.  We’re making a special dinner of beef-ale stew with green onion buttermilk dumplings for dinner in honor of it being Christmas Eve and all, we’re spending all day tomorrow with his family to celebrate Christmas, and then on Monday we get to sneak a peek at what our little Squishy is up to.

Seriously, life doesn’t get much better than this.

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Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009 | Author: Erika

Would you like to know how I spent my afternoon?  I spent a good portion of it lying on the couch, alternating between sleeping and resting with my eyes closed.  The rest of it was spent puttering around the house doing various and sundry projects.

Seriously though, that nap was magical.  Almost as good as the nap I took yesterday afternoon.

Why, you ask, do I have the luxury of napping my afternoons away?  Because my job is awesome.  My company gives everyone the last two weeks of the year off, and the best part is that it’s paid time off.  How could you not love a company who pays you to nap all afternoon?

I remember this time last year with fondness, though I think this break will be far better.  Last year I got stir-crazy less than a week into the vacation time and was chomping at the bit to return to work by the time January rolled around.

This year finds me blissed out on baby hormones and really savoring the ability to shut my eyes whenever and wherever my body deems it necessary.  Which is often.  And everywhere.

I do have projects planned for the time off, however, just to keep things interesting.  For example, I’m planning to start calling and scheduling interviews with pediatricians tomorrow.  I hear this is kind of important to get squared away before the baby gets here, so I might as well schedule the interviews for next week when I know I’ll have time.

I am also in the process of deep-cleaning the house to help me cope with Doc being gone.  I did this with my Dad’s house after he passed away and it drove my brother crazy, but this is how I cope.  I clean things.  I organize.  I restore order to the outside world so I can deal with the chaos of my emotions.

It’s probably strange, but it works for me.

While I putter and sleep, Wes continues to study.  He missed passing his huge exam by one measly question on Saturday, and is scheduled to re-take it tomorrow morning.  Where others might be intimidated or discouraged by not passing, Wes is determined.  I have a feeling this test will be destroyed tomorrow by the time he’s done with it.

I told Wes that the first test attempt was really just a reconnaissance mission, to scope out the enemy’s weaknesses.  Now that he knows the lay of the land, he’s going to crush that test and I, for one, can’t wait to see him do it.

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Monday, December 21st, 2009 | Author: Erika

Wait!  Before you grab the tissues, let me just preface this post by saying that we did not have to put down Doc Holliday this weekend.  That said, he’s still gone.

When Wes decided we were ready to give Doc up, he investigated a whole herd of dog rescue groups in the area, leaving messages and hoping someone would call him back and offer to fix Doc up and find him a new home.  No one did.

Doc continued to deteriorate, and we made the grim decision to take him to the Humane Society to be euthanized.  Just as a precaution, I called them first to make sure they would actually assist us with this as he was neither extremely old nor extremely ill.

They surprised the pants off me by saying they were willing to take responsibility for Doc, get him the surgeries he needs, and then find him a new home.  When I told this news to Wes, I could visibly see a weight taken off his shoulders.  This was the best possible scenario, and it was staring us in the face.

We made an appointment, and we’ll be dropping him off this afternoon to start his road to recovery.  The conditions of the Humane Society taking him stipulate that he goes to a different home after the surgery, but we’re honestly fine with that.  He’ll likely need more vet care in the future and we’re not in a position to pay for that for him.

So that’s where we’re at.  I’m standing at the precipice of my second big goodbye of the year, but this one is entirely different.  It’ll definitely be strange coming home to a dog-less house, but this is the end of our journey with Doc.

We watched him run…

Doc 6 Months 3

We watched him grow…

Doc Holliday 7 Weeks 4

And now it’s time to watch him go…

Puppy ShenanigansWe’ll miss him a lot.

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Friday, December 18th, 2009 | Author: Erika

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!  Would you look at that!  Right there!  The last frigging word of the title!  What in the blue blazes is that supposed to mean?!  It couldn’t possibly mean that I’m 75% done with this pregnancy.  That would be lunacy.  Nonsense.  Silliness incarnate.

You know what else is nonsense?  The maneuvers this little guy can execute while confined by my physiology.  He did this one move today (twice in a row!) where he jettisoned off my hip bone and up into my ribs.

How is this even possible, you ask?  I don’t know, ask my fetus.

There’s really only one word for this week: Tired.  Oh my gosh, am I exhausted.  Only part of this can be blamed on the baby.  Yeah, he wakes me up quite a bit at night with his adorableness, and my back makes things uncomfy as well.  Really, though, sleep deprivation isn’t the cause.

If I had to guess, I’d say the reason I’m so tired is hormones.  The hormones have shifted to a very mellow place, making me sleepy regardless of how well I slept or how busy I’ve been.

It’s gotten so bad that I pretty much need a nap every night after dinner, which means Wes watches a lot of movies with me passed out on his shoulder.  He claims not to mind, and he pretends not to see when I occasionally drool on him.

Such a good man, I totally won’t even give him a hard time when we’re in the nursing home together and he saunters up to me wearing a fresh pair of Depends.

As for the baby, he’s over three pounds at this point and I, for one, believe the books on this account.  Schlepping this little punkin around is a lot of work.  Have I ever told you how fabulous sitting is?  Sitting is great.  Yay sitting!

I don’t sit all the time.  I’ve been very good about doing my workout DVD and the yoga portion does wonders for my back.  I was considering seeing a chiropractor, but the yoga has cleared up the issue nicely.

I also love the salsa dancing portion.  It’s really loosened up my gait and I feel a lot more fluid when I walk.  Exercise!  Who knew it could make a person feel so great?!  Ok, besides all the exercise evangelists I mean.

Thursday, December 17th, 2009 | Author: Erika

Today is a special day.  Not just because it’s eight days before Christmas, but because it’s the anniversary of the day Wes and I vowed to stick together no matter how annoying either of us got in our old age.

Let's Get It Started!As you can see, I was just ever so slightly excited.  I was 20 years old, halfway through college, and just minutes away from marrying the guy I’d been swooning over since I was 16.

At this point, we’d bought a house together which Wes was keeping cozy for me until I could join him there as his wife.  He was selling cars for a living while I finished school and took care of his sister’s beautiful girls as a nanny.

Before I knew it…

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We were married!  (The blond guy you see looking down and away is my little brother, sporting his semi-ironic faux-hawk.  My grandfather was apoplectic when he saw that faux-hawk, thereby making it the faux-hawk that will live in infamy)

Now, on this day four years later, this is where we are:

Belly at 30 weeksOur first child is on his way, we’re more thankful for each other now than we’ve ever been, and life is very, very good.

I’d say that calls for some cake, wouldn’t you?

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