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Monday, February 01st, 2010 | Author: Erika

I posted on Facebook this weekend that I’d just bought a whole bunch of cloth diapers, and the response was mostly positive.  There were, however, a few people who told me I was nuts, and yet more people who assured me that disposable diapers are way better than cloth diapers.

I just thought I’d share a bit about why Wes and I have chosen to go with cloth diapers for Squishy’s little buns, because I’d rather that people didn’t get the wrong idea about me.  The following are myths:

  • I love doing laundry, and thus have chosen cloth diapers because I just can’t get enough of washing and folding stuff all day every day.
  • I like poop.
  • I would rather do more work in an effort to save the environment, because I am self-sacrificing and magnanimous and hug squirrels when I get the chance.

What, then, if not a love for poop and squirrels and laundry, is the reason we decided to go with cloth diapers?

Cost.

We sat down and did the math, reformulating our monthly budget to account for the increased costs associated with having a child, and realized that our little family has the best chance of making it if we use cloth diapers.  We estimated that we’d spend about $60-$80 a month on disposables, which, while not horrible, is still a number that must be contended with.

We just bought $220 in cloth diapers, which should get us through Squishy’s first nine months of life.  This means we spent less than half as much on diapers for Squishy’s first nine months, and we can reuse the diapers when Squishy’s siblings arrive.

Now, I realize that there are people in the world for whom extra laundry and close proximity to poop are not worth the savings.  Wes and I are simply willing to make the sacrifice to keep our budget as lean as possible.

The diapers are actually really easy to use (no pins or anything) and we think Squishy will be very content with his big fluffy bum-cushion.  Our plan for now is to use disposable diapers (which several people generously gifted us with) for Squishy’s first couple weeks while I’m getting the hang of being a mommy, and then make the switch.

So that’s the deal with the cloth diapers.  Anyone out there using or used cloth diapers?  How’d it work out for you?  Any tips?

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Thursday, December 31st, 2009 | Author: Erika

Just for kicks and giggles, I looked up my New Year’s Eve post from last year.  In said post, I outlined my hopes for 2009.  Some of those hopes came to fruition (Wes and I expanding our family) and some didn’t (My Dad’s cancer did not run away).

I would say, though, that even with my Dad’s passing and saying goodbye to Doc, we had a pretty good year.  I was blessed enough to get to take one more trip out to see my Dad before he passed away.  We found out that we’re expecting a super-cute baby boy and that pregnancy agrees with me.  Wes finished school and ended the year with a big certification exam victory.

I mean, yeah, this year was not free from speed bumps.  It was, however, a good year.  We still have our house, we have our health, we have our son (and his health), and we have each other and our families.  No, we still don’t have cable TV and it’s been awhile since we took a vacation, but shoot.  Life is good, and I’m not complaining.

That being said, I still have hopes for 2010.  It’s a whole new decade, you know.  At this time ten years ago, I was a 14 year old girl who had just moved to Washington with her mom and her mom’s creepy boyfriend.  I spent New Year’s Eve on the computer, listlessly waiting for someone to sign on to AOL Instant Messenger so I could chat with someone.  Anyone.

Ten years later, I have a rakishly handsome husband, a very busy baby boy kicking my ribs, and a bottle of Martinelli’s with my name on it.  We’re staying in this year due to my propensity for degrading into a toddler after 11 pm, and I have no doubt we’ll have a splendid time doing it.

Here are my hopes for 2010:

  • A healthy baby and a safe delivery of said baby.
  • A good job for Wes.
  • A strong finish in school and good job for my brother.
  • The ability to endure the 30 Day Shred with Wes once the baby’s here.
  • To ring in the New Year next year having lost all my baby weight.
  • An excellent year for my company, including a successful site re-launch and doubled traffic.
  • A tenable solution for what I’m going to do at work next year when the baby’s here.

Much like with last year, I have no idea how these hopes will shake out.  Some may happen, some probably won’t.  The nice thing is, it’s a whole new year.  There’s nothing but the opportunity for great things to come.  I look forward to seeing what’s ahead, and though I know there will of course be challenges to overcome, there will be joy too.

What do you hope for next year?

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Thursday, December 24th, 2009 | Author: Erika

Sorry about not posting yesterday.  You see, I was too busy celebrating.  With my handsome husband.  Who just so happened to freaking rock the heck out his huge exam yesterday.

That’s right, he met his foe on the battlefield, pitted his wits against it, and emerged victorious with a nearly perfect score.  Take that, Microsoft certification exam!

Now that this exam is behind him, Wes can officially start looking for work as a software developer because not only is he now qualified as a software developer, he also has the credentials to back it up.  He wants to take five more exams after this one so that he’s qualified as a super-hero developer or somesuch, but this was the big one and he nailed it.

We spent the day at the super-fancy mall around here, soaking up the revelry and commerce, and then went to see Avatar in 3D.  It was a really fun movie to watch, but either my eyes are broken or the projectors were slightly out of focus because a lot of the movie just looked kind of blurry.

Needless to say, I’m really going to enjoy watching the movie again on DVD.  When I won’t spend half the movie closing my eyes to avoid the blur, and where I won’t miss crucial parts of the plot because of my many bathroom breaks.

Now we are left with wonderful things to celebrate.  We’re making a special dinner of beef-ale stew with green onion buttermilk dumplings for dinner in honor of it being Christmas Eve and all, we’re spending all day tomorrow with his family to celebrate Christmas, and then on Monday we get to sneak a peek at what our little Squishy is up to.

Seriously, life doesn’t get much better than this.

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Thursday, December 10th, 2009 | Author: Erika

Do you remember when I wrote yesterday about my poor frozen washing machine?  Well.  Last night it had the equivalent of the 24 hour flu, what with the vomiting and mess and horror, but now it’s all back to normal and running in tip top shape.

Last night though.  *shudder*  Wes was able to get the hoses leading from the wall-mounted faucets to the washer thawed, but the washer was still unable to get the water to come through.  We concluded this was because something inside the washer was frozen.

To combat this, we decided to run a load of laundry with hot water manually poured into the washer.  This actually worked quite well, and after a rocky start the washer was soon thawing out and humming along quite well.

We congratulated each other and went inside to cook dinner.

Never in our wildest imaginings could we ever have conceived to check to see if the drain hose was likewise frozen.

Oh but it was.  I went out to check the washer and there was an error message in the little digital window and bright white cheerful suds were flowing from the bottom of the washer door onto the garage floor.  The door clicked unlocked and, because I’m curious, I opened the door.

The bloody great deluge!

The bloody great deluge!

In case you’re curious?  If your washing machine starts flashing you ominous error messages and clutching its stomach while saying it’s going to throw up?

Whatever you do, make sure it’s not opening that door.

Unless you have a large bucket handy.  Or just really want to wash your floor with laundry detergent.

Wes was, of course, watching the whole debacle.  This was unfortunate because I happened to be wearing his shoes at the time and it’s entirely possible they wound up as collateral damage thanks to my delay at dodging the great flood of cleanliness.

We wound up with a garage floor that looked like this:

On the plus side, Wes' car's tires were mountain fresh...

On the plus side, Wes' car's tires were mountain fresh...

Because my husband is awesome, he tackled the clean-up (I was excused because of my difficulty at reaching the ground) while I finished dinner.  Wes, being the intrepid troubleshooter he is, refused to give up hope on the washer and, after two more cycles with hot water, was able to defrost the drain pipe and effectively resuscitate our washer.

The question for us now is, what do we do about our garage?  In the four years we’ve owned the house, the garage has never gotten so cold that the washer’s frozen up.

All that’s changed now, so what do we do?  Do we insulate our garage?  Buy a space heater for laundry day?  Wrap our hoses with heat tape and insulation?

These are all big homeowner questions, none of which can be solved with martinis or cookies.  Unacceptable.

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Wednesday, September 23rd, 2009 | Author: Erika

Wow.  I got schooled in that last poll, didn’t I?  I mean, it wasn’t even a fair fight at all.  Just goes to show you: Let the Internet settle your marital disagreements.

I wish I had more to say at the moment, but unfortunately every time I open my mouth the only thing that comes out is either “Baby!” or “Offbeat Mama!” or “Windows!” because that’s pretty much the majority of what I’m thinking about at any given moment.  Baby because, well, duh.  Offbeat Mama, which is the name of the new site I’m helping to launch, because we’re launching next week and I’m juggling a whole heap of things to get that going.  Windows because we’re getting ours replaced.

I’m actually pretty darn tickled about getting our windows replaced.  Our house has two kinds of windows: vinyl and aluminum frame.  The vinyl windows are newer and work great.  The aluminum ones?  Not so much.

They’re as old as the house and you can certainly tell.  They leak heat like a sieve during the winter, and let it come pouring in during the summer.  The winter is the worst though, because they collect condensed water and then it pools on the window sills and I have to mop it up every morning to prevent it from dripping onto the carpet.  All that moisture eventually leads to mold growth, so every week during the winter I have to disinfect and clean out our window tracts.  Just so you know, winter in Washington?  Lasts a long frigging time.

Adding insult to injury, the seal on the windows in our bedroom broke and now there are little white spots on the insides of the panes of glass.  This means we can no longer see through the windows in our bedroom.  Super fancy nice, huh?

Wes’ brother is an excellent contractor, so he’s going to replace our windows when his schedule clears up.  Not only will this save us buckets of money on our heating bill this winter, it’ll update the heck out of our house and enable us to see clearly through our bedroom windows.

I’m excited about these things, but what I’m most excited about is the prospect of bringing Squishy home in February (the deep, dark depth of winter) and being able to keep the house warm enough.  Also, being able to put the baby to sleep in his/her bassinet next to a window that doesn’t grow mold?  That tickles me too.

Now, as for Offbeat Mama.  I’m really excited about that too.  Ariel and I have been working on it all summer and the official launch is on Monday.  But.  If you want to, you can come sneak a peek extra early-like.  You just need the login / password, which are: mamasays / timeforbed

The site is really fun already.  It’s basically an online community where offbeat parents don’t have to apologize for being who they are and where we can all collectively ooh and ahh over one another’s adorable progeny without wondering whether someone’s judging us for whatever decision they think is weird/wrong/whatever.

So yeah.  Come check it out, at the very least so you can see the adorable shoes I blogged about last week :)

PS: A new belly pic is coming up tomorrow!  I’ve decided I’d like to do those every two weeks, so we’ll see if I can keep it up!